[codex] Inject agent graph store into ThreadManager (#29736)

Pick up the AgentGraphStore migration.

- Inject an explicit optional agent graph store into `ThreadManager` 
- Move all calls to spawn, close, recursive resume, and
subtree/archive/delete/feedback traversal through it
- Keep using  `LocalAgentGraphStore` when SQLite is available

This required some changes to the interface to deal with futures:

- The interface now matches `ThreadStore`'s object-safe pattern by
returning a boxed `AgentGraphStoreFuture` directly, allowing
`ThreadManager` to hold `Arc<dyn AgentGraphStore>`

*Slight behavior change!* Unfiltered subtree enumeration now performs a
single all-status breadth-first traversal, so a closed grandchild
beneath an open edge is included; the previous Open-then-Closed
traversals could not cross mixed-status paths and silently omitted it.

codex-rs/Cargo.lock

@@ -2615,6 +2615,7 @@ dependencies = [
  "bm25",
  "chrono",
  "clap",
+ "codex-agent-graph-store",
  "codex-analytics",
  "codex-api",
  "codex-app-server-protocol",